It is sometimes quite a challenge, I think. Just like you, I have always wanted to be a strong independent woman. Yet I was not very good at this before and I often stood in my own shadow. In the end I succeeded fairly well and my question to you today is: Would you also like to be a stronger woman? Do you also want to get everything out of life and do you think there is more to live for? Do you also believe that you do not have to settle for the last cookie crumbs? Would you like to sit in your skin again? You appreciated more, to feel respected and loved? Do you want to be aware of your self-esteem and personal skills? Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have the feeling that as a woman you can take care of yourself and enjoy it? Then you might benefit from these 20 tips that will help you become a strong woman.
The right time? NOW!
Yes? Then you have arrived at a time in your life that you consciously choose to change course forever. I give you these tips that I used myself and still use to create the best version of myself. The version that I love and that I’m happy with, regardless of what others think of me. of course I didn’t learn this in one goes. No, some years have passed over it and I have crossed my face a few times! Nevertheless, I eventually integrated these tips into my life and I now know that it works for me and I think they could work for you too.
In every woman there is a woman with a primal power of ‘I have you there’ and therefore also in you. A woman with a vision who is not afraid to be heard. A woman who knows what she wants, who goes for it and who dares to trust herself. Whatever role you have in this life. That of mother, wife, girlfriend, sister, partner or colleague. You too have that feminine power in you. Kenya Moore Explains Why Her Nemesis, NeNe Leakes, Should Quit ‘The Real Housewives Of Atlanta. Dare to be the woman you are on the inside and no longer be afraid of your own primal force. Get out of the world of conditioning, entrenched ideas and beliefs and be that strong independent dyke of a woman. That woman who was always there, but who remained standing in her own shadow.
You don’t have to like everything about yourself, but you do learn to love yourself anyway. These are your body, your life and do it justice. You only have one body. Never let yourself be told what you should look like. A strong woman can determine this for herself. Even if you walk in a jute bag, you have hairy legs and you still want to walk on high heels at the age of seventy, have fun!
Knights on the white horse do not exist and that is a good thing. So don’t wait and don’t expect your partner (whether this is a man or a woman) to take on the role of a knight. You are perfectly capable of making your own beans and making your dreams come true. Dare to take charge of your own life and make decisions that lead to a future that suits you. Do not wait for someone else to bring your luck to a golden silver platter. If you continue to wait for the spirit from the bottle, then you will ultimately weigh less than an ounce!
Erika White is a graduate of Parsons School of Design. Erika is based in Manhattan but travels much of the year. Erika has written for NPR, Motherboard, MSN Money, and the Huffington Post. Here at Morning News Ledger, Erika covers entertainment stories, focusing on performance arts and culture.